Our weekend at the Elks Lodge was the perfect blend of fun, friendship, and a little feel-good community service thrown in for good measure.

Friday night was our usual gathering at the Lodge. It’s become a routine we genuinely look forward to—dinner, a few drinks, maybe a little dancing if the music hits just right. And of course, the 50/50 raffle. We never expect to win, but it’s all part of the fun. The place was buzzing, as usual, with the familiar hum of laughter and conversation. We caught up with old friends, shared stories from the week, and even managed to make a few new acquaintances. That’s the thing about the Lodge—you never feel like a stranger for long. Everyone is friendly, and the good times roll with ease.

But it wasn’t just about the fun. Saturday brought a more meaningful kind of gathering. We joined fellow members to fill hygiene bags for homeless veterans. There’s something deeply humbling about packing toothbrushes, soap, razors, and other simple necessities, knowing they’ll offer a bit of comfort to someone who’s gone through far too much. It wasn’t glamorous work, but it was important—and it felt good to be part of something bigger than ourselves. The spirit of service runs deep in the Elks community, and Saturday was a beautiful reminder of why we love being part of it.

So, while Friday filled our hearts with joy and laughter, Saturday filled them with purpose. And that’s what makes weekends like this so special—a little dancing, a little giving, and a whole lot of heart.

Sunday brought us right back for another round of togetherness—this time with a plate of mouthwatering pork spare ribs in front of us.

The Lodge put on a special rib dinner, and let me tell you, it did not disappoint. The meat was fall-off-the-bone tender, perfectly seasoned, and paired with all the right sides. It was the kind of meal that makes you stop mid-bite just to say, “Wow, this is really good.”

We took our usual spots among familiar faces, but as luck would have it, a few new folks wandered in and grabbed the empty seats around our table. It didn’t take long before introductions were made, stories shared, and laughter passed back and forth like an extra side dish. That’s the magic of the Lodge—every meal becomes a gathering, and every gathering turns into a chance to connect.

By the time we left Sunday night, we were full—not just from the ribs, but from the whole weekend experience. It was a perfect blend of fun, friendship, and giving back. And as we drove home, we couldn’t help but smile, already looking forward to the next weekend at the Lodge—where the music plays, the food is hot, and the doors (and hearts) are always open.

But, who are the Elks?

Elks Lodges bring so much more to their communities than just a building, golf course or pool. They are places where neighbors come together, families share meals, and children grow up. 

Elks invest in their communities through programs that help children grow up healthy and drug-free, meet the needs of today’s veterans, and improve the quality of life. See they’re website. Please note that the Elks are a private organization.

I have been an Elk for 21 years. Ken is in the process of joining. We love coming here because there is an energy like no other place.

Do you have a place like the Elks? American Legion? Moose? VFW? Eagles? Where’s your place?

Eydie