It’s funny how life brings people together in the most unexpected ways. About three years ago, I started a Grief Support group, seeking comfort and connection after loss. That’s where I met Barbara and Donna—two kind-hearted women who were navigating life after losing their husbands. What started as shared grief slowly blossomed into genuine friendship.

Interestingly, Barbara and I actually met first through my Coloring Club. She was carrying a heavy heart at the time, and I remember how coloring helped offer her a bit of peace. Donna joined the group a little later, also finding comfort in the quiet creativity and camaraderie we shared.

Fast forward to today, and our friendship has become something we all truly value. This week, I had the pleasure of hosting Barbara and Donna at my home for lunch. Nothing fancy—just some cold cuts and brioche rolls, with cheese, lettuce, tomato, and a delicious red potato salad on the side. We sat inside while we ate, laughing and chatting about everything from stories of yesteryear to what’s been happening lately in our neighborhoods.

After lunch, we moved out to the patio. The weather couldn’t have been more perfect—sunny, warm, and just right for an afternoon of relaxed conversation.

Ken joined us as well, and the ladies always enjoy having him around. It wasn’t long before the topic of knee replacements came up (as it tends to these days!), and we all shared our own experiences with surgeries, recoveries, and the frustrations and victories that come with healing.

It was such a pleasant afternoon—simple, heartfelt, and full of connection. Moments like these remind me how healing it is to be surrounded by people who understand, support, and truly care.

We’ll definitely do it again. Some friendships are forged in hard times, but they grow into something warm and lasting—and for that, I’m deeply grateful.

When was the last time you had friends over for lunch?

Eydie

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10 responses to “Meaningful Lunch with Friends: A Heartfelt Gathering”

  1. Barbara Clayton Avatar

    what a beautiful friendship.

    It’s been a long while since I’ve had a friend in, but we often go out and meet somewhere. It’s not nearly as intimate. I think it’s time to plan a home get-together.

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    1. Eydie Avatar

      There’s something so nice about an intimate lunch at home. We go out as well, but there is always background noise to contend with. At home, we’re more relaxed.

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  2. Angie Avatar

    What a blessing to have friends, even if it is because of hard times or grief! I hope to find a couple close friends now that we have moved to Kansas.

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    1. Eydie Avatar

      I hope you find friends too. Where do you go? What do you like to do?

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  3. Martha DeMeo Avatar
    Martha DeMeo

    Sounds like a wonderful day with you friends. This past year hasn’t been easy after losing my husband on Easter 2024. We were together 59 years and it’s hard to move forward. I did join out church grief share and just by coincidence two of our clients from back in the late 90’s both lost their husbands recently also and we all reconnected at grief share. It made it so much easier for all of us and it rekindled our friendship, talking about the window treatments we have made for them. We have 3 more weeks of the program and we plan to get together for lunch. So far the only time I’ve gone out to eat is when my granddaughter took me out for my birthday a few weeks ago. But I have such a wonderful family of neighbors who are constantly looking out for me and bringing me delicious food. So much that I invite my neighbor over at times for leftovers.

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    1. Eydie Avatar

      Being married for 59 years is a major milestone in your life. Losing your husband must have been a tragic time for you. Getting together with friends can be extremely helpful when it comes to healing. We all need connections. Keep it up.

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  4. Jeanine Byers Avatar
    Jeanine Byers

    It sounds wonderful, Eydie! I have close friends and neighbors that I see almost every day. We have a morning tea time together or we invite each other for dinner. I, too, am grateful for those meaningful friendships.

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    1. Eydie Avatar

      How nice to have friends and neighbors who can get together regularly. You lead a wonderful life, Jeanine

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  5. Jen Becerril Avatar

    Sounds so wonderful hopefully one day I will be healed enough to let strangers in.

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  6. Eydie Avatar

    What are you healing from?

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